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Execute project membership materialization as "SELECT" + "INSERT", not "INSERT ... SELECT"

Summary:
Ref T13596. See that task for discussion. Executing "INSERT ... SELECT" at default isolation levels requires more locking than executing "SELECT" + "INSERT" separately.

Decompose this "INSERT ... SELECT" into "SELECT + INSERT", and reformat it to execute a minimal set of changes instead of wiping everything out and then writing all of it back. In most cases, this means we write 1 row instead of `O(number…