R1:22ce74c5a88d

Conpherence - fix unread counts

Summary: we weren't updating the "latest seen transaction PHID" properly. do that and ONLY do it from the view handler so we know the user got a real good chance of actually seeing the message. also we weren't searching through the transactions correctly; fix that.

Test Plan: sent a test user some messages. noted the proper count of unread messages.

Reviewers: epriestley, chad

Reviewed By: chad

CC: aran, Korvin

Maniphest Tasks: T2399

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