R1:9df13b7e28d5

Provide a "-f" flag to scripts/sql/upgrade_schema.php

Summary: Normally this gives you a prompt about taking down services, provide a noninteractive mode for scripting the upgrade process.

Also drop a generally bad/confusing/irrelevant piece of advice from the documentation and replace it with information about -f.

Test Plan: Ran with and without -f. Ran with -h.

Reviewers: moskov, tuomaspelkonen, jungejason, aran

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Differential Revision: 387