R1:02c3200867b1

Respond more gracefully when a git push deletes a nonexistent ref

Summary:
Fixes T5534. If you `git push origin :refs/tags/doesnotexist` (for some non-existing tag), we get a change where both the old and new refs are empty.

We incorrectly call this an "add", because the old ref is empty. Instead, call this a "delete", but skip the logic which would normally mark it dangerous.

(Possibly we should just reject these outright, but Git allows them, so stick with that for now.)

Test Plan:
Pushed nonexistent…