R1:8ff3a133c4d7

Generalize repository proxy retry logic to writes

Summary:
Ref T13286. The current (very safe / conservative) rules for retrying git reads generalize to git writes, so we can use the same ruleset in both cases.

Normally, writes converge rapidly to only having good nodes at the head of the list, so this has less impact than the similar change to reads, but it generally improves consistency and allows us to assert that writes which can be served will be served.

Test Plan:
- In a cluster with an up node…