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Fix a possible database ref fatal during MySQL setup checks if a host is unreachable

Summary:
Ref T12966. See that task for a description and reproduction steps.

If you put Phabricator in a master/replica configuration and then restart it, we may fatal here if the master is unreachable. Instead, we should survive setup checks.

Test Plan: Put Phabricator in a master/replica configuration, explicitly disabled the master by misconfiguring the port, restarted Phabricator. Before: fatal; after: login screen…