R1:5e3efca08a57

In taskmaster daemons, only close connections which were not used recently

Summary:
Ref T11458. Depends on D16388. Currently, we're very aggressive about closing connections in the taskmaster daemons.

This can end up taking up a lot of resources. In particular, because the outgoing port for outbound connections normally can not be reused for 60 seconds after a connection closes, we may exhaust outbound ports on the host if there's a big queue full of stuff that's being processed very quickly.

At a…